Friday, March 15, 2013

Princess Sophia

Recently i made a new friend which happens to be my customer at my coffee bean outlet. It started out when she was requesting to name her as Princess Sophia.
Me: i can do that for you
but i didnt actually write her name and i kind of feeling a bit bad because its like telling people you will do it but in the end you didnt do it. so i tweeted about it. however, after i got back home, i have no idea why i search for Princess Sophia in twitter. 
guess what
i found her
her tweet was saying she just made a barista called her princess sophia out loud,twice. since then we have been exchanging DM in twitter and meet up and now, im a friend of hers. i just want to remind myself that i am glad that i did look up on princess sophia in twitter because i just thought i should at least say sorry or at least make it up to her.

i am not encouraging people to sort of stalk other people in twitter. i just thought i should tell the world that making new friends is not that hard. you just have to leave the door open to let other people come into your house or go out and bring them in your house.
im sorry, i love to use metaphor
 sometimes we need new friends to expand our circles or just maybe we needed a new friend. i can pretty much conclude that my relationship with my current close friends is much more to the "cost" than the "reward"
i just learned one of the subject in master of corporate communication for about an hour lastnight. hehe
it doesnt really means that i get less benefit when my investment is high. it just that, i cant really talk about certain topic that i really want to talk with my friends. Mostly because i dont really like how they reacted to the topic or how they response to the topic. Secondly, i found that they are not really interested in the topic. Thirdly, sometimes they are not being supportive. i always found myself down whenever i tried to talk about a certain topic. sometimes, im refraining myself from talking about it because i know im not going to get a good feedback or something like that. 
this explains why i needed a new friend
just to have someone that i can talk about things that i want to talk about and wont think twice to start a conversation.

those who are close to me probably read this, i just want to let you know that. this doesnt mean that i am replacing you to a new friend or anything. i still going to treasure our friendship, just lately when i needed someone to be there for me, you guys cant really make it due to commitments and responsibilities. hence i need different friend for different purposes. 
Can ar like that?
im selfish like that